Ok if your single tell all about life, this looming bomb the c bomb looming with its advertising and the buzz that will wain in those dark months of jan and feb. Its kind of a prep yourselves chin up kind of (pma) thread.
I am prepping mentally, but liking being busy with my work, so lets have this thread as a club the single club, non singles can chip in but really its a self help thread for loners,
so plans.. there isn't any sod it,
xmas tv? throw it in the garden next time a lewis advert appears,
pub? possibly, well maybe,
sea swim,, might do,
walk, maybe head for a mountain but that takes organising,
bike yeah maybe,
flight to somewhere,, nah ill help the climate this year,
work nah minimum in jan, sod it,
dinner with family... as much as will try desperately to avoid it I will be sucked into it like a vortex of family competitiveness kids and chrismas best and silly hats, egos, and general family pecking order.
Mates,, well the few I have I will look up especially the single ones having a tough time, all the rest can do one they never bother with me unless they want something.
so tell us your plans, as I am a single bloke given up looking like a lumbering dinosaur. I ve found out look after yourself then look out for others, you are important you can only look after you no one else will that makes you tougher more resilient in life possibly more selfish but you do relish conversation with complete strangers.
Ahh challenges afoot,.
1 talk to a complete stranger,
2 make two decisions don't procrastinate then flip a coin, love doing that, I ve done that many a new year on where to head off to.
3 be there as always for mates and an very old lad I know who struggle with the c time.
There 3 things to do that arnt sodding resolutions there fairly easy sod Christmas, all my nephs and nie s are getting a coin in there cards like I used to or a selection box, bloody going on.