First off all, im in a pretty bad mood. Therefore my apologies...
After a year or year and a half, my girlfriend suggested a second women in our relationship. Ofcourse i was like, another women? #bestwifeever! What guy doesnt want 2 ladies in the bedroom right?!
We've set the ground rules of things we can and cannot do. The most important one is, we cannot do anything sexually without each other. This rule isnt set in stone or anything. But it makes sure that in the beginning everything is fair.
Now the dating begins! Fun right? Look for the people who are "open minded", and after a few minutes u find out that 99% of these people deserves to be hit in the eye with a lawnmower. I learned that "open minded" means else then "i sometimes put differend kinds of socks on".
About a month or 2 ago, i felt so empty, and my girl felt same. We talked about it and decided that we should try again.
Then, somehow we found someone online and chat for a couple of days with her. We started dating. It was great.When the 3 of us were together, it was awkward. But it felt right.
I doubt its gonna be a relationship, because somehow all the efford comes of "our side". We want more but, i guess she doesnt.
Oh well shit happens right?
Well, we have been poly for more then 9 years now. And ofcourse we had doubts that we were actualy poly the last couple of years. But now it hits us like a brick. We are Poly and its just awefull. How the hell can anyone say that they are happy to be it? Its so f*** hard to find someone. And even if you do, no one wants to put any efford in any kind of relationship these days. Its like, "he dint put the toilet seat down, i better break up with him!"
Polyamory isnt a choice. Its who you are. U cant say to a homosexual "have u tried not liking it?" Well, this is the same.
I would like to hear your opinions about poly. How do you deal with it?
1. We only do triangles. Everyting together. Wich makes it extremly hard/impossible to find someone.
2. Its full of spelling mistakes and i do not give a poop!