Quote from Atomik
But men and women have different psychology - especially sexual psychology. The pyschological impact of invasive penetration also can't be underestimated. Having someone force themselves inside you is simply not the same pyschologically as a woman raping a man. If a man was raped anally, the similarity would be a lot greater.
I know what your saying but I dont think with something like rape you can put people , men and women in to boxes , everybody is different and copes differently.